BettyandHaroldhavebeenamarriedforyears.ButonethingstillpuzzlesoldHarold.HowisitthathecanleaveBettyandherfriendJoansittingonthesofa,talking,goouttoaballgame,comebackthreeandhalfhourslater,andthey&rsquorestillsittingonthesofa?Talking?
Whatintheworld,Haroldwonders,dotheyhavetotalkabout?
Bettyshrugs.Talk?We&rsquorefriends.
Researchingthismattercalledfriendship,psychologistLillianRubinspenttwoyearsinterviewingmorethantwohundredwomenandmen.Nomatterwhattheirage,theirjob,theirsex,theresultswerecompletelyclear:womenhavemorefriendshipsthanmen,andthedifferenceinthecontentandthequalityofthosefriendshipsisbaimarkedandunmistakable.
Morethantwo-thirdsofthesinglemenRubininterviewedcouldnotnameabestfriend.Thosewhocouldwerelikelytonameawoman.Yetthree-quartersofthesinglewomenhadnoproblemnamingabestfriend,andalmostalwaysitwasawoman.Moremarriedmenthanwomennamedtheirwife/husbandasabestfriend,mosttrustedperson,ortheonetheywouldturntointimeofemotionaldistress(感情危机).Mostwomen,saysRubin,identified(认定)atleastone,usuallymore,trustedfriendsotwhomtheycouldturninatroubledmoment,andtheyspokeopenlyabouttheimportanceoftheserelationshipsintheirlives.
Ingeneral,writesRubininhernewbook,women&rsquosfriendshipswitheachotherrestonsharedemotionsandsupport,butmen&rsquosrelationshipsaremarkedbysharedactivities.Forthemostpart,Rubinsays,interactions(交往)betweenmenareemotionallycontrolled&mdashagoodfitwiththesocialrequirementsofmanlybehavior.
Evenwhenamanissaidtobeabestfriend,Rubinwrites,thetwosharelittleabouttheirinnermostfeelings.Whereasawoman&rsquosclosestfemalefriendmightbethefirsttotellhertoleaveafailingmarriage,itwasn&rsquotunusualtohearamansayhedidn&rsquotknowhisfriend&rsquosmarriagewasinserioustroubleuntilheappearedonenightaskingifhecouldsleeponthesofa.
71.WhatoldHaroldcannotunderstandorexplainisthefactthat()().
A.heistreatedasanoutsiderratherthanahusband
B.womenhavesomuchtoshare
C.womenshowlittleinterestinballgames
D.hefindshiswifedifficulttotalkto
72.Rubin&rsquosstudyshowsthatforemotionalsupportamarriedwomanismorelikelytoturnto()().
A.amalefriendB.afemalefriendC.herparentsD.herhusband
73.Accordingtothetext,whichtypeofbehaviorisNOTexpectedofamanbysociety?
A.Endinghismarriagewithoutgoodreason.
B.Spendingtoomuchtimewithhisfriends.
C.Compainingabouthismarriagetrouble.
D.Goingouttoballgamestoooften.
74.Whichofthefollowingstatementsisbestsupportedbythelastparagraph?
A.Menkeeptheirinnermostfeelingstothemselves.
B.Womenaremoreseriousthanmenaboutmarriage.
C.Menoftentakesuddenactiontoendtheirmarriage.
D.Womendependonothersinmakingdecisions.
75.TheresearchdonebypsychologistRubincentersaround()().
A.happyandsuccessfulmarriagesB.friendshipsofmenandwomen
C.emotionalproblemsinmarriageD.interactionsbetweenmenandwomen
正确答案:
71B
72B
73C
74A
75B